Applying to college is stressful enough without every step requiring a clipboard. The average family visit occurs when we are on vacation, for pity's sake. Why can't we treat the day like a pleasant stop at a well-known tourist attraction, full of history and intriguing architecture and maybe even free snacks? Why, in other words, can't we have fun? The more I think about the standard advice to record every iota of information, the more ridiculous it seems. -- The Seattle Times